The circle of Connections

It’s funny how we as human beings connect with other human beings.
It’s like we are born as individuals to a unique bunch of people already experienced in life, as if they were selected to help us out and guide us like a job trainee or something. And we develop our individuality. We begin to have an independent conscience, what we think remains to ourselves. Like it’s so strange how we become individuals through a process of connecting, isn’t it?

This is just the beginning. We grow up. We grow up making more and more connections. We meet strangers who’re living a totally different life and have a different set of connections yet we find something in them which allows our conscience to trust them. Something so strong about them, maybe positive vibes, maybe motivational powers, maybe their tone of talking, maybe their care, maybe the similarities we have with them or maybe the difference in outlook. Whatever it is, It turns that stranger into a friend. And now suddenly we have a connect with them. The bond, what we call it as, forms.
But as we know, nothing is constant, except change itself.
Those people change and simultaneously we undergo a transformation. With that sometimes, we lose the bonds, because that thing in them that we connected to or that thing in us that they connected to isn’t there anymore.
That’s how it is, that’s how we lose the connections but we can’t stay there right? Somewhere in the journey we forgot that we’re individuals and that that connect was meant to be temporary just as it was, it was meant to give us support while we walk to the turn, until we reach the point where we have to separate. It was meant to give us memories to laugh at and cry for and that’s what it did. The relationships gave us memories and with that they gave us life lessons and experiences which make us what we are, which actually brought the changes in us.
But we have to move on, with the path we chose, to reach our destinations. No wonder the journey is more beautiful but a journey is a journey only if we keep traveling. Only if we don’t stop and make the subway a destination.
Moving on isn’t as shallow as getting over something, it means we need to continue with our exploration, we have to continue with the wandering, with making new connections, with getting over the old ones, we have to continue with our journey of Life.

And yet the circle of life, the circuit of connection goes on. During this journey all of us do find someone with whom we connect, just the way they themselves connect to their soul and thus changes in them don’t effect our bond with them at all. And that’s where we form a life long connection and then give birth to yet one more individual, one more human being who will go through the same circle in the same world of connections.
That’s why the circle of life and the circle of friendship and the circle of love and the circle of happiness and other things are all circles. They have no ends.
That’s how the world is round ;D
We just have to go on with these circles. But of course it’s still funny how we as human beings connect with other human beings.